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National Caregiving Month – Harvesting Your Me Time

Harvesting Your Me Time Happy Healthy Caregiver Blog Post

How does your list of tasks and to-dos look?

November is National Family Caregivers Month and this year the theme according to the Caregiver Action Network is “Caregiving Around the Clock”

Common phrases you may hear from yourself or another family caregiver are “I’m so tired” or “I wish I had time for myself”. Sometimes there are no words, just tears symbolizing overwhelm and potentially a sign of caregiver burnout.

To compliment this year’s National Family Caregivers Month theme, this post will focus on how to harvest more time for yourself and specifically how to tackle the never ending list of tasks.

Whether your to-do list is neatly organized in a digital tool or on the back of a receipt, a napkin, or taking up space in your head the premise is the same…these things require attention from us.

For each task, we can either delete, delegate, combine, or schedule it. Let’s explore each of these four task actions. (more…)

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Enjoy Your Life While Caregiving – Yes You Can.

Family caregiver enjoys life while caring for others

Resentment is an evil emotion that arrives with some buddies including guilt and sometimes anger. When you feel resentment creeping into your life, it’s a sign. It’s a sign that you need more me time in your life to energize your body and your spirit. A sign to find ways to integrate the activities you enjoy into your life…even while caring for others.

Much of the content on my site focuses on the little ways you can be happier and healthier while caregiving. The small, doable, and practical ways to savor daily life. But…there is also much enjoyment in planning, living, and remembering BIG events.

For my family, our big events in the past couple of years while caregiving have focused on traveling. (more…)

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National Caregiving Conference 2017- You Don’t Want to Miss It!

national caregiving conference 2017

Registration for the 2017 National Caregiving Conference is now open. Are you committed to going or considering watching it virtually?

I’ll be at the event in Chicago (with my sister!!) and we’d love to connect with you in on Friday, November 10 and Saturday, November 11th.

Last year, I wasn’t sure I could go. I was wondering how I would getaway. Who would take care of everyone? Did I have enough days available to take off from work? Could we afford the expense?

Thankfully, my husband talked me in to attending and I’m so glad he did! Now, I’m going to pay it forward and encourage you to attend by sharing five main reasons. (more…)

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The Happy Healthy Caregiver Manifesto

The Happy Healthy Caregiver Manifesto

A manifesto is a published or public declaration of intentions, core beliefs, motives or views. If you ever shop at lululemon, they put their corporate manifesto on their shopping bags.

I  was inspired to write the Happy Healthy Caregiver Manifesto after listening to Gretchen Rubin and her sister Elizabeth Craft’s podcast Happier. Here’s a link to Gretchen Rubin’s manifesto and core beliefs. Here’s a link to her Happiness Manifesto.

Once I started writing my core intentions and beliefs…I almost couldn’t stop!

The Happy Healthy Caregiver Manifesto

I believe every individual’s lifestyle choices impact everyone who loves them.

I know I won’t find the time for my own self-care. I have to create my me time. (more…)

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10 Unique Mother’s Day Gift Ideas for Seniors

Gift ideas for moms

Mother’s Day is just around the corner.

After years of buying for the women in your life and limited time to shop, you may be challenged to find a Mother’s Day gift.

Never fear, ideas are here!

Below you’ll find a list of unique and thoughtful gift ideas you can present to the important women in your life this Mother’s Day. (more…)

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How to Identify and Create Boundaries while Caregiving

Boundaries while Caregiving

I believe many Caregiving conflicts we have with others stem from unspoken expectations. A lack of understanding of personal boundaries.

Think about your last Caregiving related conflict you had with someone. Was this the case? Was something this person expected you to do or say? Or, were you expecting them to do or say something?

Do ever feel like the universe is sending you signs? One particular book kept popping up in a variety of conversations. The book is called “Boundaries”. At one point, the universe (or my co-worker) put the book in my hand and said ‘you really need to read this.’ I didn’t know he gave it to me until after I read it which was probably a good thing since I read it straight away like I was borrowing it. He insisted afterward that I keep the book or pay it forward.

So I read “Boundaries” because of all the mentions and because I can always improve my relationships with others.

I took some notes while reading this book so I could share the key points in this post. (more…)

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Webinar: Finding Time for What You Love

Finding Time Webinar

Recorded Webinar

As part of fulfilling my requirements to become a Certified Caregiving Consultant, I needed to facilitate an online chat, hold a phone support group call, or do a webinar. I chose the webinar as part of my ‘final’. (By the way, If you want more information on becoming a Certified Caregiving Consultant, please let me know. I have a coupon code you may be interested in).

This webinar was presented live on Caregiving.com on 3/14/2017. The recording is now available for you to watch at your convenience.

I know what it is like to be sandwiched between caring for aging parents while raising teenagers and working a full-time job. I have cared for my mother-in-law and father, and currently help care for her chronically ill mother and developmentally disabled brother.

In 2014, my world flipped upside down when my mother-in-law was in her fourth year of battling lung cancer and both of my parents were fighting for their lives. My father passed away in August 2014 putting me in an immediate position to move my mom and become her primary caregiver. That December, my mother-in-law lost her battle with cancer. I had to learn how to integrate Caregiving with my demanding family and work responsibilities and somehow not lose myself in the process.

This webinar is a result of what I have learned on this journey. You will hear practical tips on how to create time for the activities and people you love (and miss!).

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Announcing the ‘All Things Caregiving’ YouTube Talk Show

All Things Caregiving youTube talk show

We Had a YouTube Channel for Caregivers

In the fall of 2016, my fellow global Caregiving advocate, Carole Brecht of SanGenWoman connected with me to see if I was interested in creating an inspiring & uplifting Caregiving talk show with her on YouTube. After lots of phone and email conversations, recording nights, behind the scenes prep, and YouTube training…we launched a channel in early 2017!

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5 Ways for Caregivers to Save Time and Minimize Stress

How Caregivers can save time and stress

A guest post written by Jessica Hegg.

Being a Caregiver can be one of the most stressful experiences of your life. Most people giving care for loved ones don’t get paid – and many caregivers work full or part-time, or have children or other responsibilities that mean their life gets very, very stressful.

It’s very tough to juggle time for all the responsibilities of your normal life and of your caregiving. And if you’re not careful, this can lead to caregiver burnout – physical, mental, and emotional exhaustion that can affect your ability to provide care for others, and cause stress, fatigue, and other deleterious health outcomes.

The way this most often manifests itself is a lack of time – it seems like Caregivers never have time to everything that they need to in a day. We’re here with 5 simple tips to help you save time and minimize stress in your day-to-day life as a Caregiver. (more…)

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How to Incorporate Movement while Caregiving

How to incorporate movement while caregiving


A guest post written by Erica Hornthal, founder and president of Chicago Dance Therapy. I had the pleasure of meeting Erica at the 2016 National Caregiving Conference and attended her movement breakout session. Her techniques opened my eyes to a fresh new tool for our caregiving toolkit.

As a dance/movement therapist, I have the opportunity to connect with individuals through their bodies, not just through “dance” but through non-verbal expression, communication, and body language. Our bodies have a wonderful way of expressing wants and unmet needs. Martha Graham said, “The body never lies.” This is true as long as we look and listen.

In this post we’ll explore several ways to blend movement with caregiving. (more…)

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